It appears there's no member filter list control buttons. Visual Studio 2013 English with VA build 2270 (and previous versions).
So you type your object name, then '.', and the list appears, but no buttons to allow the bolding / showing non-inherited members first, etc. See screen shot - notice not buttons at the bottom of the pop-up window.
The promo video on the main WholeTomato page specifically shows this feature, and it seem to work in C++.
Knowing which settings to look for, and where to look for them takes time when you start using any new program. I am glad this had a simple fix, and thank you for the update.